Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up and
letting some things go rather than trying to
fight tooth and nail Just to win an
argument.
What’s the use?
Many call themselves BIG BOYS according
to their own standards but things have
changed.
What then are the Top Qualities Of A Big
Boy?
1. He doesn’t show off before ladies.
Some guys are simply funny. They sight a
pretty lady and they start acting like
“junkies”, No naaa!
The girl is in your taxi that’s why you
brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab and
start playing compulsory Candy Crush and
Temple Run Oz that you haven’t played for
a long time.
There is God ooo!
2. He doesn’t “pursue” Ladies on the streets.
To some guys, Jungle never mature oo!
After NYSC, they’re still disturbing the girl’s
life with “oh baby, wait na, I have
something to tell you” lol…You wan preach
the Word of God?
I’m not saying you can’t stop a girl NICELY
to share your affection.
Make sure you’re just not pursuing her. Be
mild in your “desperation”/ pursuit.
3. He doesn’t do things to attract
unnecessary attention.
I believe, only kid- boys do this. They shout
and yell but when you get closer, NOTHING!
SOME open “CONTROVERSIAL” threads, so
to speak, just to attract “CHEAP” attention.
NO! That’s not the way!
A big boy is himself but his best self.
He strives hard to be better.
In NL, for example, if you don’t always make
FP, find out the skills and don’t try to think
that being “Controversial” will get you FP.
That’s a MIRAGE!
(If you don’t make FP, keep trying, don’t give
up, lol)
4. He has his own money
It may not be in millions yet but at least he
has a stable influx of income. This ish led
tallesty 1 to open a thread regarding why
BROKE GUYS SHOULD NOT DATE!
I buy his reasons.
No Big boy lives on friends or others!
He may ask but he doesn’t depend on you.
Some guys still beg their girl to send them
airtime. #I Laff in Japanese #
5. He is Financially responsible for the
upkeep of his girl.
If you’re “privileged” to have a girl who loves
you, buying her things will just be natural.
Small boys are the reasons we’ll be seeing
threads like “DO I GIVE MY GIRLFRIEND
TRANSPORT FARE EACH TIME SHE COMES?”
You may bash me but I don’t care! If she is
not just a sexxx doll to you but a potential
wife, transport fare isn’t a topic!
hmmmm…
6. He doesn’t ALWAYS involve in argument
with his girl.
Your lady might wrong you and still expect
an apology. silly right?
A big boy tells her the sorry and she feels
silly after that!
She’ll find a way to apologize…
Some will be involving in e- war with girls on
NL. If I find myself arguing with her, I
quickly apologized. Make peace reign. After
that, I noticed all of them saying same
things like: ” I’m more sorry, take a hug” etc.
Big Boys Apologize.
Small Boys Don’t Apologize.
7. He tries hard to fulfil his promise.
If you made a promise to her to take her to
the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to
keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible,
sincerely assure her that you’ll make it up to
her and really do make it up.
It says a lot about your personality.
Probably, your thinking was wrong about
who a Big Boy is.
It’s not about “Low waist” and Having Seven
Girlfriends oo…
It’s about being responsible to One girl.
As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is
Responsibility.
Don’t be like the average Nigerian guy
whose dream is in his pee pee… No!